PEGGING IS THE NEW BLOWJOB.

PEGGING IS THE NEW BLOWJOB.

It’s been out there for a while and has been called unromantic, gay or exclusively for porn. Well, that’s slowly changing. Being fucked anally by a woman with a strap-on or a dildo is hot. "Prostate stimulation feels incredible, so if on top of that there's a beautiful girl doing it with a strap-on, it makes me even more horny. Change of standard gender roles is sexy, trust me", says anonymous. Put your skepticism aside guys, because pegging, is a thing.

Right now as a one hundred percent straight guy you’re thinking: ‘yeah right, I’m not having a lubed up dildo or strap-on in my ass anytime soon, are you crazy?’ We got to give it to you: that doesn’t sound like a vacation to the Bahamas. But trust us: a woman performing anal sex on you with a strap-on can lead to an incredible, long lasting orgasm that will leave you begging for more.

Right in the butt

With the help of his readers, columnist Dan Savage named the anal phenomenon in 2001 ‘pegging’. After 16 years it’s still kind of a taboo within straight love. Even when it appeared on the show Broad City and Jeremy asked for a ’right in the butt’ the opposite girl character Abbi was shocked, as some women would be. Columnist Karley Sciortino talked about straight pegging as well, introducing strap-ons to Vogue women in her breathless column and probably giving them something to think about. 

We hear you. What do you care about columnists opinions? Alright alright mate. Here’s the biz. Pegging simply gives you pleasure. Stimulating the prostate can lead to intense orgasms and ejaculation. It’s well known that historically sex workers slipped fingers up guys asses to make them finish sooner so they could move on to their next customer. “The prostate area is simply a very sensitive area given that a lot of nerve endings are located there”, says Dr. Stacy Friedman, Clinical Sexologist and Certified Sex Coach. So, the p-spot is as important as the p-enis, which has been neglected for straights for too long.  

Taboo bullshit

So it’s okay to enjoy strap-on sex. It doesn’t make you a weirdo. It's not gay either. “Sexual orientation is not determined by what you do", says sexuality expert Angie Gunn. “Having something inserted in your anus is not as simple as orientation.” Even if a man would just do it by himself. “It’s like saying that if a woman enjoys oral sex that she’s a lesbian because that is the way lesbians enjoy each other”, says Dr. Friedman. And if we would be black and white and try to define it as an orientation, it would be lesbian. Not gay, because they have sex with their dicks, not toys. 

She’s the man

Isn’t it also intriguing: a woman having the power? A woman behind you (of all places) giving you pleasure as a dominant figure? And some of them find it pleasurable too. The power shift can be very arousing and many people get turned on by simply pleasing others. There’s an emotional aspect to the act as well. “When a woman knows that she is pleasing her man, it can make her feel more confident and connected knowing that he trusts her enough to be vulnerable”, says Dr. Friedman. Also there are harnesses that have vibrators on the other side of the strap-on so she can have an orgasm too. 

So why would you deny yourself from enjoying all your sensitive areas? Especially the ones that bring you the most pleasure? “Many men feel liberated when they are allowed to enjoy all of their body parts without feeling limited due to what is considered socially acceptable. Being sexually vulnerable allows a relationship to grow. Not to mention: amazing orgasms”, says Dr Friedman. So don’t be a wanker and just explore. Whether it’s with a strap-on or a finger. The world is your anus. 

Let's get pegged:

  1. Talk it over with your partner. Both of you should be aware and up for it. You shouldn't be surprised with a dildo up your bum.
  2. Buy a strap-on and be aware of the size and the material. Leather is for later and start off with a small one.
  3. Buy lube and use lots of it. And we mean lots. 
  4. Pick any position that suits you and makes you comfortable. Better not try a handstand at the first time.
  5. Start off really slow. Test the waters first with toys or fingers.
  6. Be careful. The receiver (you) controls the pace. This is not the time to be a Duracell bunny.
  7. Moan your heart out.
I FUCKED A FOOT FETISHIST BY ACCIDENT.

I FUCKED A FOOT FETISHIST BY ACCIDENT.

THE HOLY GRAIL OF BRAS.

THE HOLY GRAIL OF BRAS.